More About Me

Well lets see. The last post about me was the kitchen floor incident. At that point I still hadn't been with a man, not that I hadn't had the opportunity, but being the silly old sentimental fool that I sometimes am, I wanted my first and I to have some kind of chemistry. Shortly after my coming out in therapy I went out and bought a new PC, it would run the software that I wanted to use to run my construction business, but it also had a modem, you guessed it. I starting going on line. In the first pic of two guys fucking(I have a copy of it around here somewhere) that I remember seeing, both guys had looks of such euphoria on there face that I decided that, what I would later find out is called being versatile, was the thing for me. Now all I needed was the right man.....

ok, a right man.....

ok, a man.

But where to find one. I had been in several of the gay bars in Portland years before(a story for another time). I'm a country boy so I went in search of the only gay country bar I new of, long gone, the Silverado was just to twinkish for me, every time I went to go the The Embers the line was wrapped around the block, I had heard of Darcelle's but didn't have a clue as to where it was, JJ's Backroom, not the kind of place to find the kind of encounter I was looking for. I didn't know about The Eagle, The Dirty Duck or CC's.

Then one night it happened. I discovered Yahoo Chat! The next thing I new I had all kinds of private chats going, but not a single one of them was with in 500 miles. Over the next few weeks I did develop friendships with several guys in NYC, Atlanta, Dallas, Chicago, Toronto, London, Sidney, Brisbane, Hong Kong, Omaha.... a two hour drive.... from where I grew up. Now it was a 2 day drive stopping only for gas, food and restrooms. I had developed the ability to tell by the user name what a guy wanted. Then there was Bearcub26. I was in a smart ass mood so I IM'd him and said " I hope 26 is your age and not what you think your cock size is." The next thing I knew it was almost 3 in the morning and I had been chatting with Bearcub26( later to be known as THE Bear) for at least 4 hours. Nice younger guy, 27(I was 37 at the time)5'6, 155#, big broad hairy chest, versital/bottom, in Oklahoma City(Shit). Well we ended up chatting for several hours every night for the next several days. Then the big discovery. Most of the time I wasn't chatting with him, I was actually chatting with his wife.......

HIS WHAT??????????????

Yes!!! His wife.

After that point they would always let me know which one I was chatting with and when they switched. Well after several weeks of chatting with them, we progress to adding a couple of phone calls each week($400 phone bills became quite common....ouch).

Finally we decided that it was time to meet face to face. They bought me a round trip plane ticket, so I went to OKC for 10 days. The sex with her was great, with him it was .... it was..... it was..... confusing. Being new to this I figured it would get better with time. Well, anyway on day 9 they sat me down to talk and asked me to move to OKC to be with them and her two kids(I had known about the kids way back in the first week of chatting). The only thing I had to look forward to back in Oregon was a cold empty house that had been on the market for almost a year and a failing business, so I said yes.

So I went back to Oregon to finish the last few jobs and close down my business. I would be in OR for a month taking care of things and at that point Lady Bear would fly out and we would drive back to OKC since they didn't want me to make that drive alone. By half way throe the 3rd week every thing was set, all my jobs had been completed and had been paid for, since I couldn't fit everything in my pickup I put all my tools in storage and we would make and trip out later to get them, all I had to do was wait another week and a half for Lady Bear to fly out. I was chatting with her on Wednesday evening and she suddenly said I gotta go make a quick phone call(we were both on dial up service). Fifteen minutes later I got a call on my cell phone, it was her, she asked if I could be packed and ready to go on Saturday, I said yes, she said I'll call you back in a few minutes. About 5 minutes later he called and said that her plane would land in PDX at 11am on Saturday. The next day I called my ex wife and told her that I was leaving a week early and she could to what ever she wanted with the furniture and things that I left in the house, she could keep it, give it to Goodwill or leave it for the new owners when it finally sells.

Lady Bear's plane lands right on time....


Ok. Cricket Wireless Broadband just fucked up and disconnected causing me to loose the writing I had just done on the trip to OKC, so since it is getting late and I have a big day ahead of me tomorrow I will sign off and finish this post later.

Nite Guys